People who put their decorations up in November – usually I give off about this because I am always afraid of being burnt out my Christmas before it even arrives but there is a wee sneaky glee when I've been driving past houses shrouded in festive spirit. The people who celebrate Christmas a little early tend to be the one's that go hell for leather too - wonderfully tacky reindeers and Santa's and elves. I always wonder, how much is their freakin' electric bill?! I am old.
A cough that just won’t quit – I have had the most annoying cough the last few weeks and I have had to sleep propped up like a pensioner otherwise I bark all night which is no fun for anybody. The doctor diagnosed me with tracheitis and said I just have to "ride it out" which is exactly what you want to be prescribed, isn't it? I've been trying ginger tea but if anyone has any other wee old wive's cures then hit them this way please!
Being a wife - now I know I am not a wife but there might be a chance that I will some day and that terrifies the crap out of me. Will I suddenly have to don an apron and be responsible for keeping a tidy home? Being a Mrs. also sounds really weird too and reminds me too much of being a middle-aged teacher. A feminist manifesto from the 1970's resurfaced in this article and I loved how relevant it still is for modern wives - they have to be everything to everyone and that sounds bloody exhausting doesn't it?Saying no - I talked about the workshop I took part in recently that talked about different personality traits and I discovered, to no surprise, that I am a people pleaser. If you're like me then this time of year can be a struggle because you want to be stuck in with everything but this can be exhausting. This year, while I relish in being around friends and family, I'll also be sure to take a little time to myself too.
Struggling with words - sometimes writing this wee blog can cause me to feel insecure about my words, if they mean something or if they connect with anyone. Reading pieces like this make me fall back in love with writing again.Enjoy the rest of your week friends!
17 Comments
Alex Donnelly
6 years agoOh Claire why do lights play havoc every year?! Best idea to chuck them if they're a bit dodgy!
Alex Donnelly
6 years agoExactly Katy!
Alex Donnelly
6 years agoYes to keeping your name Katie! I'm not sure I like the idea of losing my name especially as I come from a family of girls xx
Kat &Amp; B
6 years agoIt’s funny that you mentioned finding the words because from the very first sentence, I was literally saying to myself how much I love your writing style and how you get a real sense of your personality from it! People please over here, too and also someone who is excited for December 1 which is the earliest I personally would get the decs up. But, hey I know people who have had them up for weeks already! Haha
Kat
Rhian Westbury
6 years agoI don't think people should be putting up decorations in November, that's the fun about December x
Nafisah
6 years agoGreat post. Sorry about Your cough. You have inspired me to start putting my thoughts down on what I need to let go of. Christmas is already on full swing in some places..lol xxx
Jenni
6 years agoAs a former Sunday school teacher, and daughter of a church minister, it really drives me crazy when people start celebrating Christmas early. But just as much as the smug people who equate Christmas with the 1st December. Christmas itself doesn't actually start until 25th December. There is a reason Christmas Eve is called Christmas EVE. The start of Advent can fall anywhere between 27th November and 3rd December, so that is the day we put up our decorations and start celebrating (sorry for the rant, it's the opposite of letting it go, lol)
Claire
6 years agoI spend 3 hours trying to untangle Christmas tree lights last week and then the wire slipped out a few of the lights. I thought it was best to chuck them as I do not want them to catch fire. I need to start saying no more. I get so much on my plate if not.
Pati
6 years agoId love to put my decs up too , i believe that we all make our own faniky tradition if someone wants to put decorations earlier And that makes them happy thats good x
Katy Stevens
6 years agoI love the idea of this! Being a wife definitely doesn't have to mean donning an apron, not unless you want to!
Elizabeth
6 years agoBeing a wife isn't all it's cracked up to be. If I could turn back the clock 20 years I just wouldn't ever be one. I've just finished reading that article you linked to - fabulously well written an accurate. Sorry to hear about your cough - I've just acquired something too that's left me feverish and shivering as I type this comment... bah, bodies, eh! Still, Christmas is coming, let the festivities begin!
Katie
6 years agoI am a huge advocate of saying no! Taking time for yourself is an absolute necessity.
I agree with the being a wife sentiment. My boyfriend has been bugging me to get married for 10 years but what with the cost, stress and the fact I hate the traditional roles means I keep saying no. Maybe one day I'll relent but it'll be an elopement and I'll be keeping my name.
Katie xoxo
Jessica Anne
6 years agoSuch a beautifully written piece. I have been desperate to put my tree up but am trying to resist till December ?.
Hope your cough improves and your feeling better soon.
Jessica Anne
Lyndsey OHalloran
6 years agoI would actually love to put my Christmas decorations up already but I'm staying strong and holding off
Rachel
6 years agoErgh I have a cough/cold this week too and it starts to get really annoying doesn't it! Good idea to let it go and not worry about it! I agree about the xmas decs too - its too early but lets not let it bother us!
Beth BethinaBox.com
6 years agoAhh... I still don't understand why people put their decs up in November (or earlier) but if it works for them, ay? We put ours up the weekend after our daughter's birthday which is the 2nd December. :)
Make sure you take plenty of time for yourself and I hope your cough gets better soon! :D
Anna
6 years agoOhh Alex, I was guided to your blog after your comment on my last post and my eyes filled up reading ‘saying no’ I feel this so bad... saying yes to everyone until I’m completely exhausted and missing out on my own kids!! I’m away to read more but thank you for your words xx